About me

PROFILE:
I have been writing poetry and stories since I was a child, and a love of reading was instilled in me from an early age. I am passionate about writing, and hope you enjoy the books I have written. Whilst most of you sleep soundly in your beds, like many Parkinson’s patients, insomnia dictates, so during those hours that sleep eludes me, the house is tranquil and quiet, an atmosphere perfect to immerse myself in writing. My life has been a series of strange events, which have without doubt contributed to my creativity. To publish anything is to bear one’s soul to the world. It is to stand naked and let everyone see who you really are. I have poured my heart and soul out on paper and I hope to share this journey, immersing you in a story, capturing your attention and firing the imagination. Through my writing and public speaking I hope to bring greater awareness to the general public about living with chronic disease.

Friday, October 24, 2014

Well Meaning Advice

If I had a penny for every time someone has given me advice, by now I would be a very wealthy woman! Often advice comes from people with no medical training or personal experience with the disease you are suffering from. Although well-meant and with the best intentions at heart, advice like this drives me crazy. I’m sure I’m not alone, and many people suffering chronic ill health have to put up with receiving a gamut of advice, some of which is totally inappropriate and occasionally just downright dangerous.

Knowing when to filter out such advice is easy: if they don’t suffer themselves or are a caregiver of someone with the same disease as yourself, a qualified doctor or recognized support group / organization specializing in your particular illness – let their advice go in one ear and out the other. On occasion, to satisfy the person’s intentions of their goodhearted advice, I check out thoroughly, researching with the help of the Internet and sometimes conferring with a specialist in Gaucher or Parkinson’s. Some of the advice or suggestions that have been made to me over the years have been amazing (and I don’t mean in a good way!)

However I would like to mention that sending a link to a newspaper article that is pertinent to someone’s disease, with information of new discoveries, medical trials or findings, is welcomed and received in a positive light, giving a feeling of hope.

A healthy person cannot imagine what it is like to literally battle each day against the symptoms of chronic disease, and in my case I’m battling two diseases. I sometimes feel a little outnumbered, but like David and Goliath, we all know who wins!

So should you be guilty of giving unverified advice about an illness you know little or nothing about …..please think carefully before you speak!

We are nearing the end of Gaucher Awareness Month, but being aware should be continual and not restricted to merely one month a year. I have written about how traditional medicine and alternative medicine can work side by side and invite you to take a look at my article this week in The Huffington Post.

Friday, October 17, 2014

Awareness


Sometimes it’s difficult for my husband to get a word in edge-ways. I always insist that being a chatterbox is inherited, and therefore can’t help it (well that’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it!) I thought I’d give my husband a chance to have his say today, so I will now hand over the keyboard to my better half:

OK October has arrived, so that means its Gaucher Awareness Month. Personally I became aware of Gaucher many years ago, when Elaine and I were dating and getting serious, she said to me one day “I’ve got Gaucher disease”. At that point I think I became wary, but after listening to Elaine’s explanation, I asked a friend of mine who is a doctor and I decided to read up on what it meant to live with Gaucher and what if any implications it would have on our future relationship. Well the more I found out the more I realized there was nothing so scary being “wary” and informed became “being aware”.



Becoming aware of a new subject is simply learning about something that previously was unknown. So let’s do everything we can during October to educate people so they understand what Gaucher disease is and how it manifests itself in different people. Gaucher disease is not something to be afraid of; the more aware people are, the more questions and research will be done to help sufferers. Thanks, let’s spread the word……

Did Napoleon say: “Not tonight Josephine”, or was it a Gaucher or Parkinson’s patient? Take a look at my article in The Huffington Post if you're not sure!

Friday, October 10, 2014

Diagnosis of Gaucher Disease

Here is a poem I wrote one night, when unable to sleep. I thought it rather appropriate since October is Gaucher Awareness Month. The poem is entitled "Diagnosis" relating to Gaucher disease:

Diagnosis

Diagnosing a rare disease, is difficult a task,
Relieved to rule out cancer, you continue to ask.

Why are platelets low and haemoglobin out of whack?
Still awful diseases in one's mind lurk at the back.

A doctor cannot know every single rare disease,
Hence correct diagnosis doesn't come with ease,

If no family medical history exists to help give a clue,
Appearing you're the first with something entirely new.

It can take a long process, which is highly frustrating,
But once on the right path the doctor begins debating.

Gaucher a rare disease, passed on from mother and father,
Often affecting siblings, a sister or a brother.

Many years ago, a sternum puncture, was the only way,
Of determining Gaucher, but this is not the case today,

Now it’s a simple blood test, no pain or fear,
Will give a diagnosis that's absolutely clear.

Technology and medicine have improved by far,
With greater awareness, we intend to lift the bar.

October is Gaucher Awareness month internationally,
Together we campaign, as a worldwide family.

To bring better understanding of Gaucher, a disease that’s rare,
Help me spread the word, and show how much you care.

Written by Elaine Benton 2014©

Friday, October 3, 2014

Gaucher Awareness Month 2014

October is Gaucher Awareness month and support groups are holding events and creating awareness in many novel and different ways around the world. Educating the general public about rare diseases is never an easy task.

Gaucher disease is just one in approximately 7,000 diseases considered to be rare. There are roughly 350 million people effected worldwide from rare diseases, which is more than Aids and Cancer patients combined. This means that the rare disease community is far larger than the general public realise. So maybe rare diseases are not so unusual and more common than we think!

It is far from easy reaching a correct diagnosis when a rare disease is concerned. The patient and family not only suffer great frustration through this long process, but there is also the economic impact on health funds and personal financial hardships that incorrect diagnosis, along with years of tests and seeing different specialists entail. Often children and adults can suffer ridicule, as if they are hypochondriacs seeking attention, when test after test rules out the common and most likely causes. Only when finally someone is diagnosed with a rare disease, as if solving the last piece of a puzzle, one can see the full picture. Great relief is found by patient, family and treating doctor, now understanding the symptoms and suffering, there is a feeling of being at long last, understood and acknowledged. Arriving at this point, for some, sadly can take years.

How times have changed since I was diagnosed with Gaucher in 1968 at the age of 5 years old. I was fortunate to be diagnosed quickly only due to having older siblings who were diagnosed first. Gaucher, being a genetic disease, once my brothers were diagnosed, it was fairly obvious in my case, what to test for. Back then there was so little information, no treatment available and patients suffered greatly in the hands of doctors who simply didn’t know about this rare disease. Today thankfully, things are very different, and I’m often pleasantly surprised to hear a doctor I’ve not met before tell me he/she knows about Gaucher. 

Rare, medium or well done? As it's October, I would have to say RARE! Take a look at my article in The Huffington Post.

Friday, September 26, 2014

Pain Management of Parkinson’s

Whoever said you don’t have pain with Parkinson’s either was seriously misguided in concealing the truth for the assumed benefit of the patient or simply doesn’t understand Parkinson’s in depth and is ill informed.

Living with pain 24/7 has to be dealt with and cannot be brushed aside as a figment of one’s imagination or simply something one has to put up with. When it comes to chronic on-going pain, although I am not a doctor; as far as “pain” is concerned, I am unfortunately a patient with a lot of experience! 

Serious pain interferes without doubt in every aspect; one’s daily activities, mood, naturally sleep, for who can sleep with throbbing pain throughout one’s body? I sure can’t, and I’ve been living with pain for years, so it’s certainly not from a lack of practice! Loss of appetite can also be attributed to pain, for trust me, nothing appears appetising when suffering pain. Physical activities obviously are affected and this is where the dangerous downhill curve of functional decline and general quality of life including social withdrawal can change drastically. When you are in chronic pain, you don’t feel like being anywhere, with anyone, doing anything. It’s just all too much.

However, this is where I go the extra mile because I refuse to let Parkinson's get the better of me. I continue to take on public speaking engagements, despite the pain, for this is where I feel I can truly contribute something unique, teaching doctors in particular what it’s like to be in my shoes. When in the past I’ve spoken to an audience of doctors at a conference, I am often asked if I’d like to sit whilst delivering my 45 minute talk. I always decline this invitation, no matter how tempting it is, for my aim is to grab the audiences attention, and sitting down immediately puts a speaker at a disadvantage. So I take a pain pill about 20 minutes before I am due to speak, and manage to deliver my talk effectively, standing the entire time. Is it any wonder why my husband says I'm 'stubborn'.

Have you got a beautiful tablecloth you never use for fear of  a stain or two? What has this got to do with Parkinson’s I hear you say? Take a look at my latest article in The Huffington Post and find out.

Friday, September 19, 2014

Cycling for Gaucher disease

With October almost upon us, many events have been planned around the world to raise awareness as we mark October as Gaucher Awareness Month. Sponsored walks, runs or bike rides have become popular ways of raising funds and awareness over the years for many charities and causes.

I would like to thank Madeleine Abramson on behalf of all Gaucher patients for recently participating in a sponsored bike ride from London to Cambridge to raise funds towards The Gaucher Association in England whilst creating greater awareness of this rare disease. The race consisting of approximately 100 riders, started from The Royal Free Hospital in Hampstead (London) and ended at Addenbrookes Hospital in Cambridge. A more appropriate start and finish line could not have been found, for both these hospitals have centres of excellence in the study of Gaucher disease.

There was just a little rain about an hour into the ride, but fortunately after a short shower, the weather cleared up and the remainder of the ride was in sunshine. Most of the way there were some serious hills to struggle up and only the last ten miles were relatively flat. The marshals and helpers along the way were cheerful and helpful and the route took the riders through some beautiful English villages and stunning countryside. With stops it took Madeleine 6 ½ hours to complete. A grandmother and her daughter kindly volunteered to bake delicious cakes which were served to the participants when they arrived at the finish line. If you would like to donate, and it's not too late, go to the official "mydonate" site.
(Photo above courtesy of Alex Ingram.)

My article this week in The Huffington Post addresses an issue that can become quite a sore point. If you suffer from Parkinson's, do you know when to stop driving

Friday, September 12, 2014

Dyskinesia is not a good look

Summer has finished, and according to the displays of “New Collections” in the clothing shops, fall has arrived. Somehow the new collections look suspiciously like last years’ or was it the year before? If you keep anything long enough, it’s bound to come back into fashion. Nonetheless the fashion industry always manage to bump up the prices, all because it’s a new season. Finding a good look for “you” is half the battle I found, but now a little wiser what looks best on my short frame, I can say with hand on heart, wearing a long dangling necklace when you have dyskinesia should be avoided at all costs. Suddenly what looked very attractive laying on the dressing table, once hanging around my neck merely draws attention and accentuates the annoying dyskinesia that people with Parkinson’s have to endure.

It’s bad enough my left leg doing its own rendition of the highland fling, and my head moving around, I look like I’m agreeing wholeheartedly with any conversation that is going on. Maybe this “look” would go down well at Wimbledon, watching tennis, turning one’s head from one direction to the other as you follow the ball. Wearing a long dangling necklace, is a definite no no! As the necklace slid from side to side, I wondered whether I would end up with whip lash. Hence said necklace has been relegated to the pile that is accumulating waiting to be given away.

On a more serious note, dyskinesia is extremely unpleasant, not to mention exhausting. For loved ones it is agonising to watch, feeling helpless and unable to stop these involuntary jolting movements. After a close friend having witnessed for the first time a bout of dyskinesia, she made a very good observation. Generally when having a slipped disc, one is advised to lay still and not make any twisting or turning movements ……well if you have Parkinson’s there is little you can do to stop the dyskinesia, which must exacerbate a slipped disc no end, lengthening the time of healing considerably. Is it any wonder that my back is taking so long to get better! 

When living with Parkinson's or any other long-term illness, planning for the future is vital and should not be dismissed. Are you an ostrich or a beaver .....not sure? then take a look at my article this week in The Huffington Post.