A very common phrase, that literally
rolls off the tongue “get well soon”, meant with sincerity, but in certain
circumstances is inappropriate, particularly when a person isn’t going to make
a recovery. Have you ever felt awkward unable to think of what to say?
Not knowing what to say often leaves
people uncomfortably speechless, and in some cases resulting in avoiding
altogether the person with declining health. I believe it’s always better to
say something rather than nothing, no matter how lame or cliché you think it
may sound. I can assure you, receiving some reaction or comment is very much
appreciated, rather than silence and being ignored.
Having someone deliberately avoid you
because they are embarrassed and don’t know how to handle the situation is
unfortunately more common than you’d think. I’ve experienced this personally
and had someone turn the other way, knowing full well they’ve seen me. I
couldn’t believe how a person could be so cold and lack empathy. No response
can be most hurtful, so no matter how hard you may find it searching for the
right thing to say, just stop and think a moment how you would feel were the
shoe on the other foot.
Making a good impression and leaving one's mark is something we all aspire to. However there are times when it's best not to leave a mark. Take a read of my article in The Huffington Post.
Making a good impression and leaving one's mark is something we all aspire to. However there are times when it's best not to leave a mark. Take a read of my article in The Huffington Post.
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