Going to a function, be it a wedding or other occasion can be daunting for anyone with Parkinson’s. Most halls today fortunately take into consideration disabled persons; parking spots allocated near to the entrance and slopes or ramps for wheelchairs are provided. However, the difficulties encountered are often not these obvious ones, but simple things people may not understand or appreciate. Walking with a crutch in one hand, a tiny evening bag in my other hand, leaves me unable to hold a glass or a small plate of food with a fork and be expected to eat whilst standing up. The logistics are simply impossible. I'm afraid of dropping the whole lot on the floor, or down the front of my dress, and so I politely refuse any drink or food that is offered to me, for I simply cannot manage. Sometimes at these types of receptions there are few chairs, and only very high bar stool type seating is available – again a big problem for anyone disabled. Watching everyone else tucking into the tasty hors D’oeuvres and sipping champagne from elegant long stemmed glasses, leaves me feeling upset and frustrated that I am afraid to join in such a simple activity. Those who know me personally understand, but it wouldn't occur to a stranger, who doesn't realise my situation, why I am refraining from drinking or eating anything. Parkinson’s affects every aspect of one’s life, and leaves nothing unchanged.
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