Parkinson's does not define you

At a Parkinson's event some time ago, I found people coming up to me saying they'd got Parkinson's, or caregivers would tell me their wife, husband or parent had Parkinson's. As I listened, I became acutely aware that nobody was thinking of introducing themselves by their name, but instead referring to Parkinson's first. It's often not what you say, but the way you say it. When introducing myself, I say "hello, my name is Elaine Benton, and I'm an author." I then may go on to speak about Parkinson's if it's relevant to the situation. The difference to me is monumental, as I see the person first, and not the disease. If you are an individual who happens to have Parkinson's, make sure you use YOUR name and don’t give Parkinson's the honour of being introduced first!!! You'd be surprised at how many people forget to say their name, or what they do, where they come from, all of which seem incidental to them, as they launch into "I've got Parkinson's". There is no doubt that as a fellow sufferer, I whole heartedly agree and admit this lousy disease rules much of our lives, and it won't go away. It irritatingly makes itself present in a pesky way, much like a three year old child who has had too many sweets and hyped up on sugar just wont sit still or go to bed. Don't give Parkinson's the satisfaction of being more important than you. You are a unique, special person, and I'm sure have interesting and wonderful things to say. So put Parkinson's on the back seat and take a ride in the front for a change. It may sound like a small difference, but the view is so much better!