Winston
Churchill once said; “A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity but
an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty”. Staying positive is crucial
to one’s well-being when suffering any illness or disability, and naturally for
those in the difficult position of being a caregiver. Having played the role of
caregiver to my mother for several years (who had dementia) before she passed
away, I am now on the receiving end of being cared for by my husband. The
tables have turned, and I can’t say that I liked being a caregiver then, or now
the position of needing to be cared for. Both stink! But that’s life, and one
rarely has the choice, as these life changing circumstances are thrust upon us
at full throttle, barely leaving one time to think let alone breathe. I am glad
one can’t predict the future in a crystal ball, for I doubt any of us could
imagine being able to make it through the hard times and cope with all that
life holds in store. This insight would be too much for anyone to cope with. I’d
much prefer to take one day at a time, make it over each hurdle as they appear,
and deal with problems as they arise.
And what a phenomenal job you're doing, Elaine!
ReplyDeleteBeing a caregiver is a difficult task, but knowing that you realise this and are thankful for the care and attention given to you and hardly ever complain, probably makes it easier for your family and close friends. It was good to see you today. Love you and admire you for the courageous way you cope with your condition.
ReplyDeleteBeing an optimist has so many benefits both physically and mentally. I think one can be a lot more realistic when they're optimistic. And then having a sense of humor helps too. Of course all of this is much easier said than done. You're doing a great job Elaine.
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